Cyntoia Brown-Long: "It took many, many years" to realize she was a victim -

Cyntoia Brown-Long: “It took many, many years” to realize she was a victim

  • Published on
    October 21, 2019
  • Written by:
    Jamison Liang
  • Category:
    Survivor Stories

Cyntoia Brown-Long’s story gained national attention this year when she was granted clemency after spending 15 years behind bars for killing a man who hired her for sex when she was only 16-years-old.

In August Brown-Long was finally released from prison, and she recently spoke to CBS News about how it took several years for her to realize that she was a victim of trafficking after realizing how her ‘boyfriend’ took advantage of her vulnerability.

“I was in my late twenties when I actually realized that I was a trafficking victim,” said Brown-Long. “For so long, you know I had thought, ‘No, they said that I was a teenage prostitute. I knew what I was doing.'”

“You know there’s a certain element where you’re just vulnerable because you’re a child your mind is just naturally impressionable in that way,” she said. “But it was like, why was it just so easy for this man to come along and in the space of a few weeks I was doing these things?”

I thought I was doing something for someone I figure was my boyfriend and that wasn’t necessarily the truth.”

CBS News also reported on her message to her victim’s family:

After Brown-Long was granted clemency, the family of her victim released a statement. It read, in part: “our hearts are broken because we feel Johnny never got to defend himself. We never got to be a voice to him.”

Brown-Long said she understands their pain because “grief doesn’t care about what the situation was.”

“I completely understand how they feel,” Brown-Long said. “This was somebody’s son, it was someone’s brother. If you lose someone, grief doesn’t care about what the situation was.”

“Especially in the justice system, it’s such an adversarial process,” she added. “Many times, both the defendant and the victim’s voices are left out of it. So, I think there are many things that are left unsaid. Many things that people would like to say.”

Brown-Long said she would “absolutely” be willing to sit down with Allen’s family. “If they would ever want to have a conversation then I’m open to that,” she added. “But so far I haven’t received any kind of word that they would be open to that.”

Upon being released in August, Brown-Long married recording artist J. Long. She said she received letters from around the world while she was in prison, but Long’s notes stood out.

“Well aside from the fact that he is very fine,” she said with a laugh. “[His letter] really spoke out to me in a way that I can’t describe.” His letters of support included the hashtag #FreeCyntoia2017 many months before her case gained worldwide attention.

“I really feel like I live with my best friend,” she added.

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Nicola Downes
3 years ago

The victims family are utterly disgusting! I understand it was their relative and they loved him regardless, but not condemn the actions of a paedophile??? Utterly unforgivable. All they’re moaning on about is the loss of their loved one. Cyntoia Brown has the moral high ground here. Not only does she recognise she was a victim of child abuse at the hands of this monster, she is also ready to sit and talk to the family and she has shown empathy for their loss, unlike this vile family.

Elaine Dolan
3 years ago

It took many many years to realize my brother and uncle were sexually abusing me too– as a baby and little girl. In shock, on and off, and would slip into dissociation, avoiding pain and humiliation, and thereby surviving. So I also only learned that my sister’s husband had raped me at age 27 (I dissociated for who knows how long?) I learned this story around age 58 when my sister accused ME of seducing her man! Talk about being twisted up, when the victim is blamed! It’s bizarre.

3 years ago
Reply to  David

The important element is choice. Many people are sexually active as toddlers, but not by choice. That’s the point.

3 years ago
Reply to  Nicola Downes

16 IS NOT A CHILD. People are sexually active at 16.

Paulette Harvey
Paulette Harvey
3 years ago

You have paid your price to society in other countries life in prison is 15 years so you have served the full time 65 years was cruel and unjust treatment IN YOUR CASE , I am not condoning the taking of a life but there is some ambiguity as to all the scene being in your control, please put this all behind you melt into the background and have a full life in anonymity.

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