Indian Teen Stands Up to Parents to Escape Forced Marriage

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An 17-year-old girl, Ruchi, has made waves in her village for standing up to her own family and threatening to report them to the police if they forced her to marry against her will.

She’s now become a poster girl for campaigning against forced child marriage in her village.

The Times of India reports:

“Only the girl is on the receiving end of all problems that follow an under-age marriage. While others would just sympathise, I would be the one to bear the complications all my life. So I stood up in rebellion,” said the student of class XI.

Ruchi said that when her parents did not pay heed to her demands, she threatened them.

“I told them they would have to pay a penalty of Rs 1 lakh; this was beyond their capacity. So I was saved,” she said.

Another power puff girl is Yamini Gupta of Gehdo village. She also used her knowledge of the law to save herself from an under-age marriage. “The fear of a police case deterred my family,” she said.

The two girls now share their experiences through a program about the ills of forced child marriage. The talks are organized by the district administration and NGOs Vatsalya and Plan.

Encouragingly, there appears to be some signs of progress. In Uttar Pradesh, the most recent National Family Health Survey found that about 21% of girls in the 19 to 24 years age group were married as children. This marks a decline from 58% in the previous survey.

High-ranking locals such as priests, maulvis, teachers, and pradhans have also been brought into the campaign against forced child marriage.

Temple priest Rajesh Kumar Dwivedi says he has started demanding proof of age for both the bride and groom at weddings. “This little step deters a number of parents. For many, the fear of penalty and police case works. The remaining can be handled with the help of real action wherein we call the police,” he said.

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kathleen conroy
kathleen conroy

You were brave to do this. I hope more can do the same thing.

Liz Wood
Liz Wood

Well done, Ruchi and Yamini! I hope you will inspire millions of girls to stand up for themselves and the authorities to support them. I am so glad that forced marriages are a thing of the past in British society.

Seán Osborne
Seán Osborne

Good for you, girl! You are a wonderful example to all, male and female!


Aurobindo Mukerji
Aurobindo Mukerji

Remarkable fact about the adult MALE MACHO population of India. A tiny 17-year old girl needs to fight for her RIGHTS against her own people while national level politicians, industrialists, bureaucrats look the other way. Just pretend it does not happen. She stands defenseless and unprotected and yet, she shines like a candle in a very dark patriarchal world. Aurobindo Mukerji


You are brave and I am so glad you stood up for yourself, child marriage is awful, if you have customs about arranged marriage and you are older, that is another thing, but to be put out for marriage at a young age for payment, that is bad. Stay strong and focused and hope you have a blessed life and can make amends to your parents at some point. Take Care